1. Too often Discusses Marriage Problems and Future
Not that men do not want to get married and have families. But in general, men see marriage as something large and long-term plans. They prefer to talk about things in the present, rather than an uncertain future. If the courtship you are only a few months, let alone still dalah period approaches, you should avoid the subject of marriage if you do not want him to 'run' away.
2. The phrase "We need to talk"
In the minds of men, those three words are very scary. When I heard this phrase thrown his girlfriend, they tend to immediately imagine a serious conversation and wondered, 'Is there something I did wrong?'. Instead of making wonder and anxiety, even better, add an explanation behind those three words, for example: 'We must talk about the events of last Saturday' or 'When you have time to discuss why yesterday did not come? ". That way, his mind was racing and discussions will not be able to run smoothly without any miscommunication.
3. Say "I Love You" Too Early and Repetitive
You have just a few hours so the lovers, but it was utter magic words, "I love you"?Yes, maybe you do love her very much. But it threw those words at the beginning of the relationship is not a good idea. For the men, a deep feeling which has existed in the early days of courtship is a sign that women who dipacarinya it is the type of aggressive or too eager. Someone who will probably curb and being possessive. It's okay to express love, but wait for the right moment. For example, after two-three months, or any memorable event that makes you feel more bonded.
4. Call or Send Text Messages many times in a day
Show an interest by asking: 'You're no where?', 'What are you doing? " or 'How are you today? " it can please the couple. But if every day, morning-afternoon-evening incoming calls to your cell phone full of numbers, after a long time he feels always watched, and assume you are too obsessive.
If he did not immediately pick up the call, do not call repeatedly or bombarded with text messages dozens of times until he responded. Do not let her pick up the phone just because the noise distracted from her cell phone. Be patient, maybe he was busy and when there is a chance, it must be your lover back call.
5. Emotions Quickly Changed Since Something Unclear
You're dating him and look happy. But because he is the wrong action a bit, you turn upset and quiet all day without telling why. Attitude is what can make him stress. Mood change often will make him confused what to do.
He will be better able to handle a woman who vent his frustration verbally and clearly, than behave like an iceberg. When there is something uncomfortable, talk, do not tell him to play 'guess-guess the mangosteen fruit'. If this habit continues, the lover could not bear and finally away.
6. He was the only person close to you
Wherever he goes, you should always go with him. He also never saw you socialize with coworkers or others. For you, only the lover is in life and make you reluctant in touch with friends.
Men will indeed be flattered if he became the most important for women. But when he sees you have no life other than her, lovers can consider you an anti-social and reclusive. He would be afraid of the gathering with his friends will be reduced because it must always accompany you. Remember, the world is not just about you and your lover, but also families and the environment. Try to give a little space for you and she enjoys each other's lives. Love relationship will be more colorful and dynamic.
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